I met an ELT writer and speaker who thought it would be ok to hit on me. He told me he wanted to take me to a hotel room where he would let me do whatever I wanted to him. He hounded me for weeks (he knew where I worked) and wouldn’t take no for an answer. I eventually stopped responding to his messages. Even now I don’t feel comfortable remembering all the things he said he wanted to do with me and it still upsets me every time I think about it.